GRADES TOO LOW?

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WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO HANDLE LOW GRADES?

There’s an undercurrent that runs through most conversations we have with our kids about school.


With some families it’s more explicit:

“We expect you to do well, and come home with A’s and B’s on your report card.”

With other families it’s less so, but still implied:


“We expect you to go into school each day and give it your best effort, no matter what.”


Regardless, when report cards come home, and the results are less than stellar, it’s always a challenge to figure out how to react as a parent.


On the one hand, bad grades represent a failure. They’re the one objective measure we have of how well our children are progressing through school. If they really understood the material, studied for the exams, and stayed organized and diligent, it would be pretty hard not to earn at least a B in most elementary, middle, and high school classes.


On the other hand, bad grades are not always a fair indication of how hard your child is trying, how much they’re learning, or what their potential for success later on in life is. From that angle, we shouldn’t overreact to a C or D, especially because your son or daughter probably feels guilty about it already. 


But we should put stock into a C or D because that tells us they don’t have mastery over the content that counts.



Citation

(Dolin, Ann. “How To Handle Bad Grades: A Practical Guide For Parents.” Educational Connections, 12 Mar. 2019)

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  • What to do if your child comes home with bad grades and how to talk to them about it
  • Whether you should punish your child for bad grades (or reward them for good grades)
  • How to investigate why it’s happening and what to do about it moving forward

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